Adultism and Critical Adulthood

At tanzhaus nrw, pieces by, featuring, and for young people are being produced. Strongly diverse experiences are gathered during the artistic processes. Yet who ultimately decides how a project should be approached or which ideas eventually end up on stage? Adults – often entirely unconsciously – dominate these processes. The term “adultism” describes this off-kilter power relation in which adults make decisions on behalf of young people due to them perceiving themselves as more experienced, more “mature”. We at junges tanzhaus would like to take a critical stance on the issue. We would like young people and adults to collaborate without one side automatically being in charge. We call this “critical adulthood”: When adults scrutinise their own power and make space for the ideas of children and young people.

Adultism workshop

To practice, we started a workshop series in collaboration with Pauri Röwert and Katrin Maiwald from Initiative Theater & Adultismus. Together, young junges tanzhaus artists discovered, during an empowerment workshop, where and how they experience adultism as well as the support they need to create autonomous artistic works at tanzhaus nrw. Simultaneously, teachers, dance educators and our own team participated in sensitivity workshops in order to question how they should change their work approach as well as work processes to enable true co-determination and enhanced visibility for young people at tanzhaus nrw. We strive for a collaboration in which all participants are taken seriously – regardless of age.

Das Bild ist ein Plakat auf dem Jugendliche innerhalb des Adultismus-Workshops geschrieben ihre Wünsche ans Erwachsene und das tanzhaus nrw geschrieben haben. Die Wünsche sind in bunten Farben geschrieben, teilweise durch Zeichnungen ergänzt.

Pauri and Katrin, how should the day-to-day work process at junges tanzhaus nrw specifically be devised to let young people and grown-ups really dance and on equal footing – and what do we, as grown-ups, need to do to let go of our power in a meaningful way?

Pauri: I think it starts with you, as a team, constantly reconsidering truthfully what power you as grown-ups wield, within the different tanzhaus nrw sections – structurally, financially, artistically – as well as how to effectively share it with children and youths. Our shared tackling of the topic during the workshops marked a beginning, yet it is significant that you permanently anchor the topic in your day-to-day proceedings: Who decides what? Who has a grasp on which resource? Who speaks – and whose voice will be heard? The development of a critical adultism stance, to us, means perceiving children and youths – as well as grown-ups – as individuals, taking them seriously with their varying interests, needs, and skill sets. Simultaneously, we must acknowledge that children and youths experience many instances of external control in their day-to-day lives – by way of school timetables, performance pressure and institutional rules. Therefore, I find it exciting to pose the question how the space  at tanzhaus nrw might be different from that: Can we create open spaces that diverge or function differently, shaped by the young people themselves? How can grown-ups become accomplices in the support of children and youths to fill open (time) spaces according to their interests? For us grown-ups, this means, very specifically, to question our own assumptions and learned roles. And it also means ceding control and responsibility to young peoplebeing open to new topics, aesthetics and working methods and to experiment together instead of simply steering results.

Katrin: I think, with the attitude you are describing, Pauri, it will be relatively easy to integrate some approaches into all processes and project structures at tanzhaus nrw. One of the greatest desires some of the workshop participants voiced: To allow to also spend some free time together in the schedule, apart from rehearsals or dance classes. Day trips for team building, cooking together during breaks, playing games, establishing ample enough break time were given as possibilities. Then there was the idea of offering all young people regular tours behind the stages, onto the stages, and so forth to provide better accessibility as well as putting a virtual tanzhaus nrw tour online. Such a video could also be filmed with young people… Very effective, but sometimes hard to consistently implement into one’s own routine would be, from my point of view, to enable absolute transparency into planned procedure and decision-making processes. That, as a grown-up, means always telling and opening about what I already structured and at which points there are genuine creative and decision-making opportunities for the young people. And then: Providing a framework for children’s and youths’ feedback and criticism, regularly getting this in, and to cultivate these feedback spaces as very important tools in shared artistic creation.

Pauri: I concur. I think an eye-to-eye, day-to-day work routine can only emerge if and when young people are steadfastly brought into decision-making processes at the house. One opportunity would, for example, be the founding of a fixed committee or board made up of young people who would be bindingly involved in programming and concept phases, getting their word in on festival themes and the focus of participatory projects. It is important to not only cede responsibility but to also enable access to further resources such as budgetWhen young people get to decide how money is going to be spent – then power is shifted in reality, and existing hierarchies are put into question. Why should children and youths not step into a teaching position? One youth company idea, for example, was to invite children  and youths at tanzhaus nrw to teach dance classes and to pass their favourite dance styles on to young and adults alike.

Katrin: Wow, that is a great idea! I am curious if this will be realised soon. Finally, I would like to stress again what also came up during the workshop with the youths: tanzhaus nrw should and can use its public visibility to draw attention – as it does on this page – to continually address the rights of young people! In this spirit, we would now like to let the young people speak for themselves and hope you enjoy all the additional material and links. Exchange about the workshop by the youths.

What to do against adultism?

What to do against adultism?

• Make children knowledgeable, for example about their rights

• Have more confidence in children and youths

• Question matters

• Be aware of (y)our own actions

• Listen

• Offer workshops for teachers/ parents

• Draw attention to the issue and position ourselves against it

• Highlight adultism (for example on social media)

• Share our knowledge

• Foster collaboration between children and grown-ups without the adults taking

advantage of their power

 

The list has been compiled as part of the November 2025 empowerment workshop.

Recipe against adultism by Clara, Jakob & Mei

Recipe for More personal content on social media (Fruit Salad)

By Clara, Jakob, Mei

The Ingredients

• Courage

• Educators willing to share something personal

• More social media content

How to prepare it You could share more tanzhaus nrw impressions both on the website as

well as on social media to foster and strengthen a more personal bond

Could, for example, be a tour of the house, photos from workshops…

Recipe against adultism by Chris

Das Bild bildet einen Servierwagen ab mit vielen Schüsseln mit geschnittenem Obst drauf. Es scheint als wäre dieses für mehrere Menschen vorbereitet worden.

Recipe against adultism by Chris

Recipe for Dance workshops taught by children and youths, regardless of age (Fried Rice)

By Chris

The Ingredients

• Children and youths skilled in dance styles that are not as well-known throughout

Germany or Europe or who dance special styles

• Jury evaluating the children’s capability for teaching on their own

• Jury comprised of three persons with vast dance experience

• tanzhaus nrw Studios

• Announcement on the website

How to prepare it

Children and youths autonomously decide who they want to offer their courses for

For example: “Locking” for all generations, “capoeira” for young people, “salsa” for senior

citizens

Variations

Some of the children and youths might later take this up as their profession

Notes

The teaching children and youths should intern with adult teachers and consider which parts

they want or do not want to adopt for their own teaching practice

The jury should not be too rigorous and lower the standards because this is about the passing

on of those dance styles, and for everyone to have fun at best!

Difficulty Level 3

Duration (approximately) 1,5 h per workshop

Number of participants 4 to 20 participants / 5 classes at the outset / 3 jury members

Das Bild zeigt eine Pfanne auf dem Herd. In dieser Pfanne werden Zwiebeln gebraten.

Recipe against adultism by Maya, Sei, Max

Recipe for Children’s Rights Sushi

By Maya, Sei, Max

The ingredients

• Website with children’s rights info & info on adultism

• With a link

How to prepare it

• A website with children’s rights info & info on adultism

• Connect website with a link

• Set a link to the tanzhaus nrw website

Variations

Put info (on children’s rights and adultism) up on visible display up at tanzhaus nrw

Difficulty Level 3

Duration 1 hour

Number of participants 3

Das Bild bildet einen Tisch ab. In der Mitte eine große Schüssel mit Reis, an den Rändern Sushimatten auf denen Algenblätter mit Reis ausgebreitet liegen. An jedem der Plätze sind Hände und Unterarme zu sehen. Die Personen scheinen das Sushi gemeinsam zu rollen.

Recipe against adultism by everyone

Recipe for Ideas for pieces entirely by children and youths

By everyone (participating in the workshop)

The Ingredients

• Implementation of ideas by children and youths

• Grown-up professional dancers

• Grown-ups trusting in the ideas brought by the young people and supporting them in

their realisation

How to prepare it

Grown-ups dance, children choreograph

Grown-ups realise the children’s ideas, yet the children are constantly on-site to intervene

Variations

Stage settings and costumes are also developed from the ideas of the children and youths

Notes

Children and youths have the final say in artistic matters!

Recipe against adultism by everyone

Recipe for Ideas for pieces entirely by children and youths

By everyone (participating in the workshop)

The Ingredients

• Implementation of ideas by children and youths

• Grown-up professional dancers

• Grown-ups trusting in the ideas brought by the young people and supporting them in

their realisation

How to prepare it

Grown-ups dance, children choreograph

Grown-ups realise the children’s ideas, yet the children are constantly on-site to intervene

Variations

Stage settings and costumes are also developed from the ideas of the children and youths

Notes

Children and youths have the final say in artistic matters!

Rezept gegen Adultismus von Allen

Recipe for Dance / Theatre Pieces: Teenage only

By everyone (participating in the workshop)

The Ingredients

• Youths-only productions

• Topics that are only relatable to teenagers (for example, self-love, FOMO, addiction,

school pressure, peer pressure, extreme emotions, loneliness)

• Ideas grown-ups need not necessarily understand

How to prepare it

Dance pieces will be developed exclusively aimed at youths and which might additionally only

be relatable to them

The performances are: Teenage only

Recipe against adultism by everyone

Recipe for A tanzhaus nrw tour

By everyone (participating in the workshop

The Ingredients

• Staff who can show young people around all of tanzhaus nrw

• Possibility to step onto the large stage and to get to know it as a space, even before the 

final rehearsal phases of a production etc.

How to prepare it

Youths get the opportunity to get to know all of tanzhaus nrw before joining a course

Variations

Youths get to perform on stage before possible final rehearsals, maybe also rehearse there

All the recipes were created as part of the November 2025 empowerment workshop.

 

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